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the first time I ever saw spirit clairvoyantly I was um in some yoga
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retreat uh I wasn’t doing yoga but it was at a yoga retreat and somebody was
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having a class there and I stood in a hallway talking to these two ladies and one lady had just lost her
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son and um as she talked a a picture formed of a young man that was in his
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high school uh letter jacket and I I
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said can I ask you a question did he look like this did he wear the jacket was the jacket this color was his hair
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this color but it was like this and he was kind of and he was a he was definitely a jock because of the way he’s she was like yes yes yes and I
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thought oh it’s just that simple someone is talking about their loved one and
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you’re listening with empathy and an open heart and boom if they aren’t just there
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I’d like to welcome to the journeying soul Tammy young welcome to the show how
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are you doing today I’m doing great I’m in Austin Texas and it’s nice and sunny
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so yeah I’m enjoying it good so Tammy I wanted to start by um just going over
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some of the basics for listening audience you are a psychic and a
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medium that’s right and there’s and there’s so you’re both because I know that sometimes it’s considered to be a
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difference between the two yes so um usually when you work as a
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psychic you’re connecting in with someone like it’s so funny I want to
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think about your belly button but it’s that part of us on our core and then we’re really addressing our higher self
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looking for things that are uh previous current and future right so it’s really
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all about the person that’s coming and talking with you when we do mediumship we really act as sort of a channel
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between um people in the afterlife and the person that’s come to talk to you so you’re really just the goet with the
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information that spirit is delivering to us and interpreting symbols and those
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kinds of things going you know interpreting that message to the sitter
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and your story in a lot in your book afterlife bonds first of all I have to say I love
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I like your book very much I have to read a lot of books I don’t always you don’t always enjoy all the
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books you have to read but um you have a very nice voice and that it’s wonderful
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when somebody’s um own Spirit comes through and it’s nice and kind and
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loving and I just I recommend your book just because it’s it’s got a sweetness to it I really enjoyed so but your book
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um talks about how you connected with a half brother Matt that you didn’t know
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that you had then he became ill and and seemed to pass really quickly and then
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you just you established the title of the book basically afterlife Bonds were you a medium before your encounter with
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Matt or was he the one who guided you into that part of your abilities yes um
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actually I was medium way before that um you know and that all came about uh when
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I lost a pregnancy at 20 weeks probably years probably 20 years before Matt
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showed up and um you know and so it was through that loss that I really began to
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uh start on a spiritual journey trying to figure out like what happened with with this daughter you know what would I
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ever see her again how does this even work and so that really led me through years of my own um sort of Journey
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Through reading books and going to classes and all of those kinds of things so it was probably about three or four
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years before Matt came into my life that I had started taking clients and had
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gotten used to you know the world of of psychic mediumship so when he showed up
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you know we had no clue that Matt’s um what Matt’s story was but I also want to
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say I had gone to a psychic medium because I was in one of these classes and a bunch of other people were like oh
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my God this is so cool this lady’s wonderful and I thought you know I’m just going to get on that train and
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let’s just go have fun with that too she was so sweet she was in the UK and she
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was doing actually doing tarot and um she started telling me you know oh you
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have this this family here she me evidence around an answer being yes but
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I didn’t know any of the evidence that she was giving me so I kept thinking well what’s going on here but then she
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got real assertive with me and said nope there’s somebody out there looking for you and they’re going to find you through DNA I was like what so I love
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that she gave me evidence telling me not only is there someone there but this is how they’re going to find you and to me
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that really directed me down this this path you know anyway when he showed up
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we were all ecstatic you know here I was I had an older brother you know I
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currently have an older brother but we both now had an older brother so yeah it
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was just wonderful so when Matt showed up it was probably within a month or so
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after that that he had gotten into a bike accident and during that time they
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you know he had gone to the hospital they were doing surgery they found that he had a tumor but then you know they
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sent him home and you hadn’t met him yet at that point because you and Randy were planning you’re you’re I’m sorry we
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should tell the audience your other your the older brother you grew up with Randy the two of you were planning to go see
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him but then this accident definitely happened first as well as and so the accident occurred and we were like oh
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you know we need to we need to come visit you make sure everything’s okay then we found out oh no I have another
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surgery they want to just check and you know let let my brain kind of unwell or
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or kind of the swelling go down and we said oh okay well we’ll come after that but it was that surgery that he said
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that it was uh like stage four uh brain cancer so now there’s like a time you
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know now there’s now you’re on a timetable about whoa wait a minute what’s you know and and all up into this
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this time frame I you know I had clients I was in did psychic mediumship work
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but it was sort of that time frame from when we found out that his his days were
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numbered effectively that that things really got
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wonderfully crazy I mean you see in the book that things happen before he shows
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up things like pre prec cognizant dreams like symbols yes I thought your book was
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so wonderful for people who want to develop their abilities like I’m a
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person who wants to develop my abilities I’ve had I I wouldn’t say I’ve always been an intuitive person I wouldn’t
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consider myself psychic at all um but I’ve had um multiple afterdeath Communications from family members that
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I’ve lost so I know that there’s a language there and I thought um the way
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you two things the way you instructed people to start two journals like a dream journal and then another
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one and to just be putting your your material in it Without Really anal izing
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it and how um it really just came across to me and I’ve heard other psychics and
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mediums say this about developing your own symbolic language and you really illustrate how it’s one thing to give
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people the tips but in telling your own story you really showed I felt how your
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language was evolving in that direction because you did describe and I will let
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you speak the dreams you had that you didn’t know what those symbols meant
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until then you were speaking with Matt and you found out what was going on in his
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life yeah oh thank you so much I I so appreciate that what I was trying to do
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worked because I for me it did yeah and I really just want to say that I felt
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like there were books out there that we were talking like medium to medium and and medium tosy we were doing all that
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kind of stuff but we weren’t talking to people that were affected by the grief
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that we were all you know connecting into so when I thought about that I realized that a lot of people around me
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are just not even sure like what I do so I really felt called to use this as the
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example to work with people that are just building right wanting to do more
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like you said and people that are already getting symbols and experiences
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but not sure what to do with them so yeah it’s it’s like we’re psychic curious or curious or something we’re
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not adjacent yes yes yes and you know we love that I mean that’s that’s perfect
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and and yeah I mean for me I wanted to show my journey as it was happening and
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um and so you do see what are my symbols and how did I respond to them of course
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in the beginning when I talked about that first dream that happened I the
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only reason I even had a dream journal at that time was that I was going to teach a class to a few people because it
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was a pandemic we were going to try to do something online so it was a small group so I had set this up you know a
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few months in advance but I thought we really need to start with dreams because that is the easiest way for for people
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in the afterlife to connect in with us right we’re not stressed we’re just hanging out we’re in those theta waves
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just relaxing um but so when that’s so I had this
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dream journal set up and there were some chicken scrp matching in there you know before this but um I think it was just
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maybe a week before Matt showed up the first Dream occurred and it was it was
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about um gold miners that were scratching across the California coastline looking for a golden nugget
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you know they and that that symbology for me was that it was really looking
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for gold and I just thought wow I wrote it down I wonder what meant but when
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Matt showed up the thing is I and my brother Randy were born in
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California and Matt lived 60 miles away from where we were born in Venture and
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he was born or Matt lived 60 miles away from there so that was information
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there’s no way I could know those kinds of things right so here we are seeing this connection back to California and
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this relationship and a relationship that felt like gold for me so yeah so
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for me those were symbols of however I created those right whether it was
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through Reading experience or whatever but those were my symbols for um for
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what was to come for sure and I know you had some dreams also that were um
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pointing you in the direction of his illness before it even came to light and before you knew about it for sure so
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yeah and that was interesting too um you know some some a symbol of a mass of
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people that seemed to be headed somewhere when I look closer I could see that they were running toward a man who
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had fallen he was hurt they were trying to make sure he was okay whatever this
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accident was I knew that he was on a bike I wasn’t sure if it was a a motorcycle or a a bicycle but I could
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see that there was an accident people were running people were saying different things I could hear but I
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didn’t understand any of them um I put that in my dream journal only to find
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out later right that that was part of the story that was the evolution of him having to you know go to the hospital
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that he had actually lost his balance on a bike and um was sent to the hospital
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and then later on there’s another dream where um I think it was probably maybe
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just even a week later they weren’t that far apart but the next one
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had such a beautiful I would say like a Japanese flare to it and I have no idea
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where that came from but it was really a symbol of a man who had been hurt he was
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being examined and um what I saw was the back of a man sitting on a very high pedestal
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and he had uh just like all these Sparks coming out of the top of his head either
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either as though something was being worked on or or these Sparks were giving off you know as things were trying to be
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fixed so that symbolized for me that there was an issue about trying to fix
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the top of his head you know and that there were all these very important people
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watching and uh yeah and it was it was uh it was really shocking to me to later
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to find out that you know that this really was brain cancer like who knew
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you know and then there was some other thing um dreams later that had to do
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with my vision of what I felt cancer might look like that being kind of a
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reddish orangish monster you know that we’re trying to fight back um yeah there
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was just I just felt like once Matt showed up in my life everything in my
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being sparked I had never had these kind of dreams before I don’t feel like I’ve
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really had them since but that you know that showed up um I know that as things
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progress with Matt um the mediumship the psychic sensing everything was just like
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high alert but that brought me to a sense of you know what I I’ve been preparing to
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be in this position for someone I love for years so I proposed to my brother
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let’s do this like let’s go on this journey together like you have this opportunity to show me the other side
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side like in a way that I don’t know right because as a medium I pretty much
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have channeled for for for people and their loved ones and that’s a lot of what I was doing but now I could be in a
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position where Matt would like take me across the veil you know I mean he would
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we I would get to do more with him than I had ever done before so I was sort of
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asking for that and I was telling him hey there’s an opportunity for it for us
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to do some really cool stuff together yes I probably misspoke before I mean he didn’t really start your abilities but
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he just took them to this other level yes absolutely yeah so do you so post
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the story in the book that’s captured in the book you’re still having Communications with
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Matt so yes but what I love is
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um he has for instance there’s the very last story in the book I think that we talk about that so uh amazing has to do
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with uh him and I shopping together for a baby gift because he became a grandfather for the third time right
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since that time um I feel like he’s more integrated with my spirit group that
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works with me when I work um but the beauty of what he does with me is a
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little bit more he’s integrated with that but I also know like as as you
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began to talk today about the book and what you felt like what it’s done for
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people that are maybe just starting to think about sensing it’s chills and so he’s always
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there right because this is basically his book I feel like he’s always there he’s always with me and chills I feel
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like he works with the whole chill situation and it’s a feeling of yep that’s right and we got we did the right
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job we did the job that we were meant to do here so uh he’s just integrated as
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I’m talking with people um whether whatever they’re talking about whether it’s this book whether it’s a personal
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situation whether it’s G whiz I think I want to come see you but I’m not quite sure you know how to you know that whole
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thing he’s right there and I feel him so it’s ongoing and uh at the end of the book he
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says that he’s my volunteer spirit guide so I love
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that let’s talk about then I I I I do want to hear about how your
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abilities developed overall like how old were you did you have a particular
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religious upbringing was how did your family support you let’s
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go I think that that’s a really interesting one you know because my background I mean I went to school as a
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engineer I I have an engineering degree in electrical engineering yes right um but my Early Childhood um and I I don’t
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go real deep in the book about this but my Early Childhood um my parents were young when
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they had children and I just don’t know um if they really kind of knew what to
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do with this you know so when when they realized that children should go to church they thought oh children should
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go to church so they would drop us off at church and be like there you go do you thing oh so they weren’t there with
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you I know your dad was an engineer also right so you followed in that family tradition so they okay so they that’s
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they were not Church going but they thought you should be okay yes so we’re going to send you to church and do right
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so I was kind of like well this is interesting these were a lot of really nice people and honestly I enjoyed that
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that that people were were kind and they were spiritual and you know uh as I and
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that was probably like Middle School that maybe I would say Middle School maybe beginning of high school that that
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that was the situation then we started moving around a lot but um but um when I
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was younger you know I always think about people do ask me like well what what was the first time you saw or
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realized and I always go back to this story about my mother in the kitchen right during the holidays the weekends I
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would always be cooking with my mother and I do remember this one particular
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day where I had the cutting board and I was chopping something who knows what and but I was kind of chattering along
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you know with my friend that was over on and and she sort of stopped and looked
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at me and said what are you doing and I said well I’m cutting these whatever potatoes or whatever and she says well
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no who are you talking to how old were you when this happened I you know I was old enough to
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realize that she was shaming me to stop so I’m I would say Elementary School
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yeah grade school yeah okay yeah and then it was kind of like who are you talking to and I was like
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uh no one and it was like right answer and off we went and I was like wow so
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you know so the other extreme is well my dad’s an engineer I guess maybe that’s the right thing to do so you know off I
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went down that path yeah so so you were you had the con you were having a conversation though in grade school now
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even though you didn’t tell your mom about it anymore did they did it continue how did you carry on
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so dormant for a while well so here’s another kind of interesting thing I don’t think I’ve ever told anybody so
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this is La I um I grew up in Orlando Florida and
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where we lived was very NASA Centric you know there was we could stand in the
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backyard and watch rockets go off at night so um I I feel like there was a
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lot going on around me and I I don’t know if it was all Spirit based or you
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know or otherwise but I always felt uh energy and spirit around me so I I would
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just say that I know at one point I really thought that I was in bed one
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night and I thought oh you know I hear I sense what’s going on and I saw a little face come around the edge of the door
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and look at me and stay there long enough for me to be like oh and then it
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disappear we and I kind of went oh I remember just feeling very sort of
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almost like a paralyzation like feeling very and I just thought oh like whatever
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that is I’m a little scared of that so can we not do that again so do you think
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that was um I don’t want to presume but since you mentioning n do you think that
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was more alien visitation than Spirit visitation I wonder you don’t know yeah
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yeah I don’t know I don’t know but as we see pictures of like um the little the
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Grays in the big eyes very popular Grays yeah and it was small and it was like a
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like a child figure and there would have been no reason I mean my brother was a bigger guy he never got out of bed I
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mean he’s a guy who loved his sleep you know and it wasn’t he was a bigger guy and this was a small I would say was
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like being or child or whatever and I kind of went oh that kind of scared me let’s not do that yeah you knew it
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wasn’t Randy though pranking you so yes yeah yes yes yeah so that was really you know
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that was the only as a child that was kind of the energy even after my mother was trying to say let’s put a lid on
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that so uh yeah but then you know as as time went
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on um it really it really
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was the loss of a pregnancy at 20 weeks of a little girl that just like blew the
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lid on right because everything was engineering right everything that you wanted from that the way you thought and
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right and I Married An engineer so here I am in the engineer Hive and I’m like oh okay you know so that was really the
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the the the spark the beginning of me really starting my journey in a way that
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was really very clear yeah yeah that’s you this podcast
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you know I say it’s like heal loss connect with Spirit manifest a new life
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but it is so many so many people have if they have you know whether they
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have a Laten abilities that have been sitting there or a little bit more evolved abilities sometimes unfortunately that loss is the thing
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that propels you to want to have that communication and it starts to open up
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everything else so tell me though I know it’s in the book a little bit how you
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transitioned from being an engineer to doing psychic mediumship fulltime this is a story that I’ve heard from other
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people you know they talk about how they left their respectable job to do what they do full-time and that it’s there’s
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there’s challenges there so yeah how did it go for you yeah so you know once I had lost
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Zoe the you know I think I think for a lot of people right you I felt like I
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was so low that there was the only thing left for me was really to go spiritual
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TR because I felt like though that time that I was at church when I was younger they kept you know talking about there’s
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so much more and I thought well let’s let’s look into that because I feel pretty lost at the moment and um at the
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my my husband at the time was really having a hard time because he was like
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you know born and bred engineer and so the idea of trying to support a wife through this it was really hard for him
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so I felt a lot I was on my own right so lots of books lots and lots of books so
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a lot of reading going on but I really felt my interest in my job starting to
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really just Wayne like it began to disappear I went from like working
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full-time to after losing the baby went back and um did a part-time it was an
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engineering job part-time and just you know I did that for a few years and I was just like my heart is not in this
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and every time I think about what else would would I do because I wanted to
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continue working it just all ended up back in the spiritual Arena so I really
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felt like you know I’ve really got to look into this um and then like once I
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left that job right the next thing I thought is you know what I could do I we had a little bit of little bit of money
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on the side and I said you know why don’t we invest we’re in Austin Texas let’s invest in a duplex or so I could
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like work on that but then I would still have time to do more on the spiritual side so it just became this progression
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right um at some point um I did get divorced we decided this just you know
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wasn’t working for us we got divorced and that was kind of another sort of pivotal moment for me because now it was
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really 100% what do I see my future as I mean I had I when I got divorced I had
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two children with me I say children I had a middle school and a high schooler right but they were pretty much
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you know doing their own thing so um at one point um like Tim taes here um but I
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guess the point is that I was able to really direct my own future um you know
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and the kids went on to go to college and do their thing and become engineers
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right which is very interesting right the respectable job there but for me I kind of veered off in the
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other direction and I I started taking some classes and and I just really
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thought like this is really where my soul sings this and and and there is
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expansion going on here I just feel like this is where I need to be this is every
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time when I head in this direction I feel better I’m more energetic this I I
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need to you know investigate this so I took you know classes from um different
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kinds of teachers I did quite a bit with Lisa Williams um my first class was with
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James Von Prague and it was funny they both offer stuff did you were you were you doing this online because I know
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they both offer a lot of stuff online I don’t know if they did at the time when you were starting but James Bond Prague
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was in person and I didn’t it was a psychic mediumship like a beginner I I
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think it was just mediumship and I said oh I know him read a bunch of his books I’ll go there I had no idea what the
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difference between the two were until we started doing exercises in the class and
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it was Wonder it was just three days but I walked away from that first class going you know what I need to do more
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because there was always things happening um you know if we were set together to do an exercise if there
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would always be responses and answers right and people would have to validate what you said and they were like yep yep
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yep and I’m like oh boy I need to do more that just set me on the pace and I
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did a lot with Lisa Williams before the pandemic but when the pandemic came
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around that was that was definitely it was a great place to be with Lisa Williams Because she jumped on to zoom
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we did readings we held classes and and none of us even thought that this kind
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of work I mean could we do that on Zoom we just didn’t even know and she she
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managed um so like huge kudos to her for that yeah so were they did you have any
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um were they your most influential teachers I guess is what I’m asking yes along with the third teacher and I will
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say his name I know he’s not super like well known his name is Anthony moraca
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and I believe that he’s in your neck of the woods he’s up East um there were
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there were some things that he held a small class and um it was the first time
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for me that as I was doing a reading with someone uh doing a medip reading for
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someone so there’s three of us Anthony was able to do something like join that
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reading on my side and direct me internally as to oh you said that person
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know the blue car you know more say more and and
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directing me into oh my gosh I know that that car came from your father I know
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that it was held in the garage I know that he had passed and no one was certain who would who would take that
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car there was dis so that kind of leadership was just amazing for me right
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that was the first time yeah that people would say oh can you say more can you go deeper and I’m like what does that mean
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well he got into my business with me and we went deeper together and I was like wo now well so he was backseat driving
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kind of there was he now was he verbally saying you no more or was yes yes okay so he is not like he was in my head
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saying you more he was saying I can feel I know you know more say it yes wow yeah
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so there’s uh there’s good teachers that will work with you on that level I think when you’re first starting that’s really
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not your concern you just want to you want to know that the person you’re talking with is giving you yes it’s like
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yes I understand that right but as you move along I think you really want to be doing more well I think you touch on two
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things that I feel are so important for people trying to develop their skills one you you we talk you talk about your
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book which is validating the signs like it’s important to get hits that are
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verifiable in some way that at some point you sort them out you know what they mean and that’s important but the
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other thing you touch on that even you had was um developing confidence you know the confidence to
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say more the confidence to say anything at all so yes right that is um that’s
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the number one thing whether you call it trust putting your trust in spirit
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whether you call it human fear right because you don’t want to be wrong like
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whatever that is I think that’s like a for me it’s like a soul maturity I I you know now I’ve got my
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grandmother on one side and I’ve got my brother Matt on the other and so I know
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my team is with me and I think it’s just that that maturity that puts you in a better position to you always hear
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people or other mediums that will say to you say what you see I’m I’m more
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Clairvoyant that’s my strongest but there’s so many times you get in your head and you’re like oh it’s a car but
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what does that mean is it blue what does that mean right and then you’re trying to figure out oh well what should I tell them like no you just I see a blue c
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right so yeah but that’s you know and that’s a universal thing fear H it’s
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interesting though I had um a conversation a couple of weeks ago with a psychic medium named Corby mitl who’s
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Upstate New York my neck of the woods and it it strikes me in my conversation with you in some ways there’s like two
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kinds of Psychics there’s there’s the kind that um are you know more reserved
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and careful want to say what they see or they know or they hear or they feel but
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not more than that like they know where the the the coast the the the water the
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beach of their ability should stop and then she was describing like um psychics
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you know that she does what she calls drive by psychic shootings like people who will come up to you and just kind of
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get into your space and they’re very confident about what they are seeing and feeling and and knowing and um you know
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it’s important I think to be the kind that you are like she just talks about personal ethical boundaries but also
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just being confident and mature but a little bit more reserved now do you have a problem that
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where you had to learn to have an off switch at any point um were things ever coming through to you that were
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intrusive or at a time you didn’t want them um is that something you ever had to deal with some people do some people
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don’t yeah I think some people are very open and and for me I think that
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transition from like engineer into psychic the psychic mediumship realm I
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think that was just more of a controlled entry for me right when when I that’s a
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very NASA term girl as I as I when I first started
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meditating and really wanting to kind of sit a lot deeper than than maybe I had before I noticed that like my boundaries
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are pretty open so I was really I felt like seeing a lot of things that I was
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not interested engaging with and it was really over a period of time that I
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learned to sayi acknowledge you I see you I am not interested move along and
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so yeah so I think for people that are maybe just starting right to know that
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nothing that you have this ability to control what you want that mental situation to be for you that it is not
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oh my gosh they’re coming at me right you just tell them no you need to leave
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right yeah now did any but did any other um psychics or mediums counsel you in
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that or did you just evolve that on your own I feel like there um I feel like a
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lot of uh psychic and Medi well mostly mediums will talk about that because you’re kind of used to being that space
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and sensing what Spirits are around you I feel like it’s mostly mediums but but
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there is that concern about boundaries and setting up your own boundaries so that you’re not you know awake at night
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talking people and all that kind of business I have to say when I first started having dreams I was wondering is
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like is this a boundary issue for me right why am I having these dreams but when I had a place to put it like
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putting it into the journal and leaving it there it didn’t stay with me so I I
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figured out that was something different this doesn’t have to do with boundaries and then when I realize like this is
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related to Matt I’m bring it on because you know I would I always had this sort of of situation with my guides like I
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don’t really want to be surprised I do but I don’t I don’t want to be surprised in a bad way so can you guys like just
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always tell me what’s coming up and by God they did and I’m so thankful for
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that so how did you develop your you said Matt is now part of your circle of
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guides yeah how did you uh evolve your relationship and develop that relationship with your
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guides um so for me I feel like there is like when I meditate I
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Journal after that and the things that will come up giving whatever my current
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situation is um the things that will come up are usually related to if I’m
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asking like oh my gosh what do I do next or what do I do for this or that or whatever
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um I at one point when I was thinking about writing this book I was
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consistently seeing a figure a woman dressed in a cloak you know and it was a
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it was dark green like a like a darker green not I Feel Like A kelly green is
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kind of bright but it’s it was darker like Mossy I kept seeing her like maybe
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every few days when I would be journaling she would show up and and and
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different things around her and so I just began to ask like who is this right
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and eventually I was actually talking to another friend of mine and she’s like oh do you want me to clue in on her and I
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said yeah she’s like oh her name is Aurora so Aurora was here with me and
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guides will be with you for a period of time and now that like everything has moved along and now we have a published
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book she’s she’s um I don’t see her anymore but the interesting thing is
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Matt is here and he is evolved right just because I as emotional things would
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come up like in my waking hours it doesn’t have to be meditation but in my waking hours I notice the chills or the
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um the silly things that’ll happen like if you’re on your way somewhere and you’re you know you’re you’re wondering
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if you should get that ice cream or not and you go byy an ice cream truck and you’re like okay we’ll pull right in
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here I mean I just feel like they’re helping me more with my day daily lives
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as opposed to really having to sit and meditate so but I do feel like it’s for
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whatever reason Aurora wanted me to know that she was working with me I just thought that was beautiful but yeah and
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you do have your guides will come and go depending on what your situations are um
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but I love that Matt I I believe that Matt and Ula my grandmother are here with me until the end so yeah I would
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think they’re not going anywhere I hope not I just love as Earth family
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Yeah you mentioned meditation now how did you start uh your meditation
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practice and does it work for you where you’re trying to clear your mind or are
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you outreaching because there are you know there are different kinds of meditation where you clear and then you
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open up but some people it’s just like I just need the Silence of no thoughts at all so how does it work for you you know
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I do both of those I have to tell you when I was first really like I need to
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meditate was uh when I was getting divorced and things were just so hard you know and I wake up in the morning to
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these emails and immediately I would just be like you know a nervous wreck and I just thought I’m going to use
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meditation to really calm myself back down I said I’m not going to read those
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emails till after I’ve meditated or gone for a run that worked fantastic too
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um and and those that helped me realize like this is my center and when people
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begin to pull you off that Center then that’s when you really have to have more boundaries but so during that period of
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time it really was more about centering calming and whatever that was if that
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was clearing and whether I used a guided meditation that was instruments or if it
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was a guided meditation to talk to my guides it it really for me was more
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quieting the mind but there are times when you know I just like hey I’m having
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a good day or whatever you know and um or or maybe you’re just curious like oh you want to go on vacation where should
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we go you know just for me connecting every day keeps me in a more sort of
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centered space and I don’t I don’t feel like my guides during meditation are
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always showing up um you know tell me something amazing you know sometimes is
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just being in a a feeling of of just sort of love and being uplifted and just
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enjoying that and so when I I try to write every day in my journal and many
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times it’s maybe just a a symbol or they have told me hey you need to get colored
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um colored whatever I chose colored pencils because color kept coming up for
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me so whether I’m drawing or I’m writing or it just symbols without color you
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know all of those things really I feel like Center me daily so I tend to do
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both whether I’m reaching out or I’m just needing to sort of calm down do you have a process when you’re
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working with clients like how how do you do you have any um you know calming down
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getting in the space ritual that you need to do before you see clients so um so it’s interesting when I
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do I’m going to say like for psychic um I I have a ritual where where I meditate
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or sit for them in the morning and I usually just sort of look at like health
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and relationships and um and like money and jobs I just kind of go through that
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um and they do have the opportunity to tell me in advance kind of what they’re
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you know here’s here’s kind of what my issue is or what I want to what I want to look at so I us kind of get a sort of
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like scanning like how are things going for them and anything that pops up we talk about and then at the end I always
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I’m asking like I ask spirit is there something that we need to talk about that like doesn’t come under these
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headings there’s always something there’s always something sort of fun or silly and but there also might be some
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things that are a little bit more serious but what that does is when I sit and do that when when the client comes
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we we talk about what to come up in the morning and then that springboards
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into you know okay but this this and this so that’s very interesting because
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that’s almost like my process preparing for an interview with you or anybody else I read your book I check out some
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of anything you’ve done on the web I’m writing up my list of questions and I’m thinking of you in advance and so when I
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get here it’s like well let’s see what happens but that’s that’s very interesting because I didn’t know you
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know um I mean I’ve had been to psychics and mediums over the years and I’ve certainly interviewed so many now that I
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I was I was curious if some people just like when I see like a James Van Prague or something or or Lisa Williams in
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their online it seems like they just plop down in the chair and it turns on yeah but and I think for some I think I
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could never do it that way if I that way so well you know what I found the reason
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I do it that way because a lot of people work just like you just said they’ll sit down and when we’ve been in classes
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they’re not going to give me time to go sit in the corner and you know meditate they’re like okay go at it so I’ve done
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it both ways but what I do is like most of the um my time with a client is about
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45 minutes and I feel like my engineering brain you know we want to go
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slow and methodical are you sure yeah that’s right I feel like people get the
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best I’m going to say bang for your buck if I sit and I know exactly where what I’m coming into and that we spring board
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from that just as like like this interview with you you are extremely prepared so it’s right it just flows
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thank you yeah now I have to say though for mediumship it’s much different so
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for mediumship um I ask the persons come to see me if they would ask say they
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want to connect with their mother ask their mother to come join us tomorrow at 11: and I ask all also but the
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interesting thing is I they they usually show up for me um a little earlier so by
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the time I sit down with my client it’s kind of like okay your mother’s here she’s already told me you know yada yada
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yada you know so um but I try to definitely go evidential in the
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beginning because I’m more Clairvoyant being able to say you know I have a lady here and this is her age and this is
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what she’s wearing in her hair and uh and as I ask her what she passed of I
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feel you know this here and that there and and going from once we feel like
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spirit’s with us then we might want to go just more freestyle you know she’s been with me and she’s told me right but
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she’s with us so you know more it becomes a lot more conversational after that so it’s just two different ways to
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work um yeah so I enjoy both but you still have some of that advanced prep I
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mean another medium who’s done tons of media like when we’re talking about James Van and Lisa Williams like the you
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know we could go on the John Edward and but Tyler Henry there’s he’s done a ton
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of media and um my mother got into these shows recently so I’ve been seeing more
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of them and he seems to always be if he’s not thinking in you know in advance
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by the time he’s in the car and someone’s driving him he’s kind of tuning in and he’s T and he’s doing his
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scribbles and he’s he’s there beforehand it’s almost like you um for for many people you need the quiet of your alone
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space a little bit to make the connection before somebody’s in front of you um that’s what it seems to me but
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most of the time uh that’s true the first time I ever saw spirit clairvoyantly I was um in some yoga
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retreat uh I wasn’t doing yoga but it was at a yoga retreat and somebody was
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having a class there and I stood in a hallway talking to these two ladies and one lady had just lost her son and um as
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she talked a a picture formed of a young man that was in his high school uh
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letter jacket and I I said can I ask you a question did he look like this did he
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wear the jacket was a jacket this color was his hair this color but it was like this and he was kind of and he was a he
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was definitely a jock because of the way he’s she was like yes yes yes and I thought oh it’s just that simple someone
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is talking about their love one and you’re listening with empathy and an open heart and boom if they aren’t just
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there I was still working on my mediumship at that time so I was like oh I don’t really know what to do
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now but that was the first time I ever saw uh a spirit really
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clairvoyantly thank you for sharing that I always like those first stories and what it felt like and you know yeah yeah
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but it but so inspiring right and that stays with me forever because I will never forget him yeah yeah now you do
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you still you when you consulted you consulted with another psychic which was who who was the woman in the UK who
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basically told you about Matt’s existance and finding each other through DNA before it happened do you still
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consult with other psychics or other mediums I’m thinking not mediums but maybe other psychics do you still do
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that because I am curious about the the psych on Psychic connection like what
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makes a psychic go to another psychic and how that is in the room in a way or over Zoom I suppose these days
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how the energy goes you know that’s a fantastic question because yes I have I
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actually have an appointment on my books now with somebody else who’s um a psychic medium and you know we all go
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through these times in our life where things kind of just get fuzzy and you’re trying to like clarify by like where am
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I going next or I think I’m supposed to do this but boy it doesn’t seem like I
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you know those kinds of it’s just like a guidance kind of a thing but I absolutely do that and a lot of these
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people that I have gotten to know along the way of become my friends and so uh
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yeah I mean I think it’s a beautiful world for us you know where where we can help each other through this this I
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guess existence or this reality that we all come to to know but yeah absolutely we reach out to each other all the time
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especially like if you’re looking at like oh I’m going to move it’s like o but but but the big life decisions it’s funny
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you can have the ability to see things that you are not so emotionally attached to as your own life I suppose yeah
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that’s the positive right is that even though you’re my friend and if you are too much of my friend we might say oh
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let’s go to a third person because they would be much more uh just straightforward and not have that
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emotional attachment yeah so I am going to move on to what I call my lightning
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round of questions the final questions I ask all my guests great um I hope so um
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so what does a well-lived life look like to you oh you know I feel like I’ve had
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that challenge right so I feel like it’s about your soul I want to say following your Soul
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like we may not know our soul purpose but if we allow ourselves to be drawn in
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the direction that makes us happy I I feel like that’s a life well-
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lived do you feel this is a digression do you feel that people have past lives
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I I mean obviously you know that people you can still communicate with Matt and your grandma so you know that yeah all
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goes on yeah you know I really do especially after reading uh I think it’s
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Brian Weiss his book Many Lives Many Masters oh that really yes I definitely
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do I think we’ve lived before I’ve done a past life regression before and uh it
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was it was really quite remarkable so what could you find if you’re willing to share who were you I am I am willing to
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share because it was kind of weird I mean not weird but I I I was actually
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sort of I passed through five different life lives uh where one I was an Indian one I
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was a teacher um one I was well two of them are three of them I was leading
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Expeditions so in each one of those I felt like I was leading a group of people and I thought wow I never right
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how would you how would you ever know that so now when I think about like where I’m at now and what I do now I’m
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just more comfortable in this space like I think I’ve done this before yeah that’s very important wow and maybe
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not in a spiritual way but in other ways whether it was education or
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geographically I felt like we were on the Continental Divide and we were moving like to California so um yeah who
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knows what do you suspect is the true nature of reality then one of my lightning questions but
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it works right now oh I I don’t even know
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how I don’t even know how to answer that right I mean I I feel like my reality is
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here and now but what about when we dream what about that reality I mean is that really
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you know two different worlds is it two different lives I don’t know some guests that I’ve
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spoken with we you know we talk about the possibility that you know where time is a construct that all your past lives
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are actually simultaneously going on now and there’s just something about being here but nobody knows I mean come on
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Tammy nobody knows that’s why it’s like what do you suspect if you have a guess and you know what it’s perfectly fine to
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say you know what I’m busy with this one here so what else is going on I I don’t need
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to know what I don’t know or you know to some extent right totally acceptable to say pass okay
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pass how do you people should um engage or stay connected to their soul or
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Spirit how should they take care of their Spirit yeah you know I just always go
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back to meditation but what I want to say about that is that there’s different ways to meditate right for a long time
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for me it was running and there was you know there was one point in my life where I went spirit I was investigating
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for someone a situation uh of a lost person and I felt
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like Spirit was with me but I was very jittery and I’m like let me go for a run let me get through this I went for a run
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and it was quick so 30 minutes came back and as I stopped running and I’m sweaty
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I get chills right so I know Spirits with me but they gave me that time so
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what I’m trying to say is whether it’s exercising whether it’s running walking whatever or for some people it’s sitting
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for some people it’s a cup of coffee on the porch right listening to the birds in the morning just that right because
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then I I feel like that puts us in more of a neutral who am I where am I where
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do I go from this moment that you have the choice to say that’s going to make me happy or feel like I’m having a good
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day yeah you touch on something we haven’t discussed before on this podcast which which is that you know meditation
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is many things and your and your way of doing it if you do it well May evolve over time it shouldn’t be I mean you
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shouldn’t be if you’re meditating at 25 it really shouldn’t be the same thing that you’re doing when you’re 50 it
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should probably change into something else yeah and and that change could be
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as much as the kind of music you listen to you know and that’s changed
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drastically for me over my journey so uh yeah there’s there’s it’s a whole
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another world I guess to look into when you think about about connecting and
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meditating yeah yeah okay when you die what do you hope to learn or
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discover or have revealed to you yeah you know what I this is what I want
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to know I want to know if I really planned out my life before I came here
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and I want to know that because I really it would answer so many questions about my childhood
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you know did I plan this that’s my question good one um where and oh this
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is a profane question as I say compared to the other ones where can people find you and the good work that you’re doing
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oh well thank you for that you can find me on Tammy young medium.com is my web
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page um on Facebook I’m Tammy young psychic medium and then on Instagram I’m
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ty y medium okay thank you and do you have any final messages for
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the listening audience today yeah you know I would just tell people to be
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explorers right be excited about what’s out there the things that are there that
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you don’t see but this in a good way you know check things out maybe go take a
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meditation class or maybe go see a psychic who knows just explore be an
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Explorer don’t don’t just I’m going to use the word corporate but you know what I mean don’t stay in your box get out
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and explore for having me oh sure thank you for sharing your lovely energy you have
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such a nice five so I appreciate it very much thanks for watching click to join
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